Policy

In Confidence is Rob's private channel for strategic spiritual work on love, power, and emotional dynamics — written and live readings, prescribed Workings, and private correspondence for clients of Babe of Lilith.

This is a written advisory service for focused communication and evolving situations that need continued insight or strategic support.

Access to In Confidence is selective and may be revoked at any time at the discretion of Babe of Lilith.

Service Structure

Readings are paid directly, in dollars. A Written Reading is one question and one answer in your chosen timing, and comes with standing. A Live Reading is fifteen, thirty, or forty-five minutes on the calendar.

Your Reserve funds the Workings Rob prescribes after reviewing a situation, at a scope you confirm before anything is charged. Standing renews your Reserve each cycle.

With standing, Messages are open at any time, and each period includes a number of new conversations. Without standing, Messages open alongside a Working in motion. Rob's replies, and your replies inside a conversation, are always included. Messages provide continuity, not a substitute for a reading.

This service is not live chat, real-time texting, emergency support, therapy, or crisis intervention.

What In Confidence Is For

In Confidence may be used for:

• Ongoing romantic or interpersonal situation updates
• Strategic guidance and next-step interpretation
• Clarification surrounding previous readings or ritual work
• Energetic observations and pattern analysis
• Follow-up questions regarding active readings
• Emotional clarity surrounding evolving dynamics
• Screenshot interpretation or communication review
• Ritual progress check-ins
• Focused advisory correspondence

What In Confidence Is Not For

In Confidence is not intended for:

• Unlimited conversation
• Continuous reassurance seeking
• Emotional crisis management
• Emergency intervention
• Mental health treatment or therapy
• Real-time relationship coaching
• Stream-of-consciousness venting
• Spam messaging
• Excessive repeated questioning
• Attempts to force immediate responses
• Dependency-based communication patterns

If communication becomes excessive, compulsive, manipulative, abusive, or emotionally unsafe, access may be limited or revoked without warning.

Response Windows

Response windows are estimates, not guarantees.

Several follow-ups sent before Rob replies are read together and answered once.

Reserve & Messages

• Reserve credits fund Workings. Readings are paid directly and never draw on it, except an Inner Circle Live Reading, which may use credits
• Messages never draw credits, at any standing or delivery speed
• Credits are non-refundable once used
• Credits expire 90 days after they are added; your Standing page shows each date.
• Unused credits are non-transferable
• Credits hold no cash value

A conversation is best kept to:

• One situation or focused topic
• One contained update, or one screenshot batch, at a time

Several unrelated situations belong in separate conversations, or in a request.

Communication Expectations

Clients are expected to communicate clearly, respectfully, and intentionally.

To maintain quality responses and energetic clarity, clients are encouraged to:

• Consolidate thoughts before submitting
• Avoid repetitive submissions
• Provide relevant context upfront
• Communicate directly and concisely when possible

In Confidence is designed for thoughtful correspondence, not continuous reactive communication.

Access & Eligibility

Access to In Confidence is selective.

Babe of Lilith reserves the right to:

• Approve or deny access requests
• Limit communication frequency
• Pause access temporarily
• Revoke access permanently
• Refuse service at any time

Access may be removed if communication patterns become:

• Abusive
• Manipulative
• Disrespectful
• Obsessive
• Excessive
• Emotionally volatile
• Boundary violating

This space is intended to remain controlled, respectful, and energetically sustainable.

Availability

In Confidence operates asynchronously.

There is no guarantee of:

• Immediate responses
• Continuous availability
• 24/7 communication
• Uninterrupted access

Periods of limited availability, travel, ritual workload, or temporary closure may occur.

Clients are purchasing access to strategic correspondence and insight — not unrestricted availability.

Disclaimer

In Confidence is a spiritual advisory and correspondence service.

It is not:

• Licensed therapy
• Medical care
• Legal advice
• Psychiatric treatment
• Emergency support

If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or emergency, please seek assistance from a qualified professional or emergency support provider.

Final Notes

In Confidence is intentionally designed to remain:

• Selective
• Structured
• Energetically sustainable
• High-touch
• Private
• Controlled

The quality of this space depends on mutual respect for time, boundaries, pacing, and communication expectations.

By participating in In Confidence, clients acknowledge and agree to these policies and communication standards.